Maybe you’ve heard of the Girlfriend Activation System (GFAS). Maybe you haven’t. But it’s a little gem of a program every guy who wants a girlfriend should seriously consider.
The Girlfriend Activation System used to be one of those “dirty little secrets” for guys “in the know”, but it’s become so popular these days, it’s not really a secret anymore.
I will say your competition for women is growing. The guys who really take GFAS and run with it (the real action takers who actually apply what they learn) almost always become total badasses with women and get the girl they want.
Now, I’m not going to sit here today and try to sell you on the Girlfriend System in this blog post. If you think it can help your situation, you’ll buy it. If you don’t, you won’t. It’s not really my call, or my place to tell you one way or another because I don’t know your situation. You can click that banner to the right if you want to learn more.
Instead, I want to share with you a tip that will help you get a girlfriend. It’s a tip more than 40,000 men have used in the past few years to attract incredible girlfriends…models, actresses, hot waitresses, and, yes, even that ample-chested beauty who lives next door to you.
This tip is pretty simple. It won’t take you long to learn and apply. In fact, you can use it on the very next woman you come across, after you finish reading this blog post.
Now, I will say it’s counter-intuitive, so you need to keep an open mind. You’ve been fed the wrong advice for years, so this might sting a little.
But here it is…
DON’T APPROACH WOMEN…it’s killing your chances of getting a girlfriend.
Not what you were expecting? I understand. All the “gurus” say the more women you approach, the better, right?
So if you don’t approach women, how do you get them interested in you?
Here’s the key…
You attract women by creating uncertainty. If you can create uncertainty in a woman’s mind, then even the hotties you consider out of your league will need you, want you, obsess over you, and follow you around like crazy, horny stalkers.
The problem with the typical “approach” is guys play too many of their cards too early. When you approach a woman in the typical fashion, you’re basically saying, “OMG. You’re so beautiful. I HAVE to get to know you.” It’s obvious from your approach just how interested you are in her. She knows you like her immediately.
But here’s the thing…
A woman is much more likely to find you attractive and desirable if she thinks you MIGHT like her, not if she KNOWS you like her. See the difference?
When a woman doesn’t know if you like her or not, it creates mystery. It creates intrigue. She constantly thinks about you. She wonders how you feel about her. She asks her girlfriends if they think you like her.
And all that time, she’s picturing you in her mind…over, and over, and over again like a broken movie projector.
Now, if you know anything about psychology, then you already know that whenever someone thinks about something (or someone) A LOT, their desire for that thing (or person) grows stronger and stronger.
You see, to get the woman you want, you don’t have to be the best looking guy. You don’t have to be the one with the most money. Or the biggest muscles. Or the fanciest car. You just have to be the guy she thinks about the most.
And you become THAT guy by creating uncertainty and being the kind of man women are unsure about. The kind of guy women are desperate to know more about. The kind of guy women WANT.
So how do you do that? How do you create uncertainty so she thinks about you all the time and becomes obsessed with the idea of being with you?